It works!

The "bum pat" ---- it really does work. I spent time Friday night, Saturday morning and this afternoon perfecting my technique. You must pat rather fast and with quite a bit of pressure - wimpy pats don't do the trick. You also must pat his bum - patting on his leg, back or side doesn't work either. He also likes to be on his side, held kind of tight to you while being patted. Caution: no patting with cold hands - he really hates that! When he is sleepy, this technique puts him right to sleep. If he is a little fussy, it calms him and he looks at you with his big beautiful eyes. When he gets aggitated, the patting isn't as effective. However, it will shorten the stiffening, crying cycle. The patter must be in pretty good shape. All kinds of body parts fall asleep, i.e., arm, shoulder, leg, back and bum. Also puts stress on arthritic body parts, i.e., fingers, wrists, shoulders, elbows, etc. It feels so good to be doing something and knowing that you are comforting this precious baby is worth it all. I love him so much! G-ma Cheryl